Well as I have discovered and many others of you have discovered that life isn’t perfect in a matter of fact it is very short. One moment may it seem perfect and then the next moment it is the beginning of a new war, but the question is: How many of us get up and do something about the problem? Why do we feel withheld do the right thing? Is it because we are afraid of facing the truth. It is so easy to tell a white lie or a big lie, but it is so very hard to tell the truth. The biggest problem that some of us don’t believe that is life is too precious to be telling lies to our love ones. Telling the truth will always be hard because we don’t know the reaction or the consequence that we could be facing, what you have to remember for everything that has a bad impact on you or another person there will always be a positive side for an example; For telling the truth, you have the chance to turn over a new leaf and start to regain trust and honesty. However always remember that you can only say sorry so many times, otherwise the wrong type of person could take advantage that you’re so so sorry.
The hardest thing is to walk away and I know that for a fact but at the end of the day I felt like a better and stronger person.
Fighting or arguing isn’t going to make us feel better in the end it’s only going to hurt people. When we are angry we can say horrible things that we don’t mean, so why say them? Words can be so damaging even if we don’t mean what we say.... so why say them? you have to put yourself in someone else shoes to know what they are going through, or you have to be the bigger person and know when to stop.
Life and death is a natural thing but it can happen so fast, so the reason why I am writing this is because one morning, I woke up the sun was bright and it was a beautiful morning. I did my usual thing hang out the washing and did a bit of cleaning until I received a phone call: That changed the way I looked at the life and the world, my heart was hammered into tiny pieces.
Every time I breathed it hurt and at the point of time I didn’t think I’d be leaving the house for too long. The news I was told that my Nan had passed away, I didn’t ever think that this day would happen and I found it very hard to believe because it was only just a couple days before that I was talking to her. Getting over her death was very hard because there so much more I wanted to share and give her and now I couldn’t because she wasn’t here. So the days were harder, but in this situation a lot of self motivation and positive talking helped a lot.
For example: I knew that she wouldn’t wanted to be remembered by myself regretting seeing or talking as much as I could of she would of wanted me to remember her by myself moving on and sharing the good memories and the happy moments that myself and my family shared together.
My message to you when your life is turned upside down not to hide away from the world for too long, Seek help from the people you have helped in the past. Lying is only going to make things worse, just remember it’s never too late to tell the truth!
So I just want to say a BIG thank you to my parents forgiving me such a beautiful and supporting life... I love you!
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